Sooo aper lg some experience that i gain from a process in being engaged.
First, after 2 long years of hidden relationship from family...due to respect and the No needs to mencapapkan hubungan, my abg Mayen and kak Mimi decided to voice out their opinion about letting me go to be someone else daugther and more than that a WIFE to a guy. My god......such a scary title to be given. So on 27th Dec 2012 mama said, Yessss why not. I have graduated and definitely should be engage. What?????????????? thats damn fast within less then 2 weeks time the hactic moments of my family trying to plan and organize everythg to work out as a great plan....hahahaha
Firstly, we neva wish to have a open or in other words a grand engagement. yelaaa i am just a normal person, there is no need to spent soo much on just an engagement party, so first rule mama said no frenzzz have to be invited.. Thus, no invitation was given away. then, there should be no gifts or hantaran as it will only be and exchange of rings and promises. BUT out of the blue, idi family decided to give me 5 dulang of gifts and what should i do???In the last minutes that i was given i have to get 7 items as a symbol of gifts to idi...hahahahahahaha funny yet its such a nuisance. Then, come my superwoman PUAN LINDA RAHIM a.k.a Mak Lin who wanted to sponsor my hantaran and taadaaa..... Everythg was done in a peace of mind... masyaallah....Tak sangka, sumenyer berjalan ngan lancar... Alhamdulillah. It was such a great experience and definitely make me more focus and narrow down to all my be doings....
Its true what my brothers said, jodoh is not in our hands its in the almighthy's.... Subhanaallah....Although we tend to fight takdir or whatevaa it is.... When Allah said A that A it is... and remember RESTU parents is neva a nonsense thing. It is the vital ingredients in life especially in starting a new one.
Thanxx to Mama & Papa, my sibling, kak nurul (maid), nieces and nephews....ohh such a beautiful day it is..such a great deal it was...and insyaallah...we will build a great family till jannah...for sure.. Barakallah
With Kak Mimi (2nd sis law)
With Kak Ana (1st sis law)
with mt beautiful and definitely short sis laws =)
With Abg Boboy (along) & Kak Ana
With Abg Mayen (angah) & Kak Mimi
The two most important people in my life.... I love them sooo much =)
With my future mama in law =)
1 comment:
congrate dewi...
moga dipermudahkan Allah tuk urusan seterusnya...
Amin....
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